Winning Back An Ex – The Details
It is natural for your friends to give you advice when you have broken up with someone. But is it good advice? Probably not. They only thing good was their intentions.
I know this because I’ve been through it myself, and I know what kind of advice they gave me. They were well-meaning but if I did it, I knew I had no shot of getting back together with my ex.
You know you are filled with emotion. Possibly you don’t know that people are very aware of it. They know your upset and your ex knows your upset. This is not how you want to present yourself when trying to reconcile.
Most guys call up their ex days (if not hours) after they get dumped. They are not in a good place to make decisions, and the decisions they make show this. The phone call will almost always end in an argument, and where do you think that’s going to get them? Not very far I can tell you that much.
Chances are you are in a confrontational mood. Confrontation will not help. If you don’t believe me, just ask some of your buddies who have been dumped and called their ex-girlfriend’s voice mail a bunch of times because he is so upset. Ask him, how well that worked out for them.
With a letter, you can take your time and put down exactly what you want to say. I recommend some things:
OK, you’ve decided not to be a typical dude and flip out on your ex. You’ve successfully completed the first step and now you officially have a chance at getting back with her, assuming you don’t screw up the rest of the steps. The second step is to tell her you want to be friends. This is critical, you absolutely need to get her to want to talk to you.
Most guys don’t react well to being dumped. They go crazy on their ex. And you probably want to as well. Let me clue you in on a little secret: if you want to win her back, you better do the opposite of what most guys do.
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