The Keys To Remember When Attracting Women
This is the fundamental concept of attraction – when you make other people feel good, they will want to be around you.
There are various sizes and shapes of insecurity, such as: Some guys think they’re too old. Some think they’re too fat. Some men think they are too short. They could be too ugly.
I want to take a moment and dispel a few attraction myths that hold men back from achieving success in their love life.
Myth #1 – You must be good looking to attract women.
All you have to do is look around at the various types of guys in this world who are dating gorgeous women to know that this isn’t the case. Simply put, it is essential to look good regardless of your physical attractiveness. Is there a difference?
The difference is, you may not escape your looks, but you do control your presentation of what looks you do have by the way you groom and wear your hair as well as how you smell and the clothes you wear, and so forth. Taking control of your appearance makes any man more attractive.
Myth #2 – Women Think Like Men Do
Naturally, we all think that everyone sees things in the same way you see those things.
For instance – If you’ve ever had a pimple on your forehead that felt so big, it was like everyone could see it. But the pimple was under the skin, and in reality, no one but you could tell it was there. Very few people if any will notice, while to you it is obvious.
You naturally assume that women size you up in the same manner.
Incorrect.
Women have a different set of standards when determining their attraction than men have. This does not mean they have no care as to the attractiveness of a man; they just do not use physical characteristics as a means of judgment as men do.
A woman’s attraction bases itself around how a man makes them feel, rather than how a man might look. This is why social status and confidence attract women. Men who make them laugh, they find attractive. Being good at what you do attracts women. Try to understand how this works. For women, looks have very little to do with all of this.
Myth #3 – Women Notice Men’s Insecurities
Since we know our own selves, much better than anyone in the world ever will, we easily find and pay attention to our every single shortcoming, such as our receding hairline, weak chin, and our big ears and nose and so on.
No matter what it is, we see it!
Since we see our flaws, we naturally presume that others do too, when in fact the majority of people do not pay attention. Unless that is, they look especially for some characteristic to hold against you. Most fret over their own insecurities whatever they may be, without noticing yours.
A lot of guys try and dismiss their insecurities by calling attention to it, as if to try and “diffuse” whatever it is they feel is ugly about them. But all this does is draw the woman’s attention to this insecurity, and only at that point do people notice it.
Besides, insecurity is very unattractive. Think about it. Then remember, in every situation it is essential to focus on your good qualities rather than any shortcomings, since the positive will outshine the negative or at least balance it more in your favor.
Myth #4 – Attractive Men Have It Easy
Those men have their own set of problems with women. Clearly in the beginning being attractive physically does help, however they have the same issues as the rest of us.
Attraction is the art of magnifying the emotional connection that a woman feels for you, when you are around, this connection will only occur when you are around her, therefore to feel those feelings she will want you to be around her.
If a man matches a woman’s physical type, she’ll gravitate to him because those features make her feel good. But if the guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those feelings will go away.
For example, take a man that a woman is not physically attracted to initially and then give them some time while he causes her to experience pleasure, excitement and fun, eventually, she will become attracted to him.
Making others feel good causes them to want to be with you, this is a fundamental of attraction.
You don’t have to be a good guy to make women feel good! You just need to know how to interact with them.
Despite any shortcoming you may think you have, once you begin leading a woman down the path of sexual attraction, she begins to see you in a much different light, so you do not have to look like the cover guy on GQ.
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