Still In Love With Your Ex Girlfriend?
If your girl just broke up with you chances are that you are broken hearted. You don’t just have to sit around and deal with your broken heart though; you can take action and try to get your ex girlfriend back! Why should you simply let her walk out of your life without at least trying to keep her? You may be able to rectify the situation and get her back in your life.
Look into your heart and if you want to get her back, decide to do just that. If you are serious about it, you need to look at the relationship and try to discern what went wrong. If you aren’t sure, ask her. Tell her that you want to know all of the things that made her unhappy enough to leave. While this may be difficult, it is the only way you are going to learn how to change and avoid doing the things that caused the breakdown of the relationship the first time around.
The next thing you need to do is sit and really think about if you can change what drove her away. Was it something that is fundamental to who you are? Or, was it simply a difference in opinion or the way of doing things? If it is something that you can change you are in luck!
While you have decided that you would like the relationship to work, you need to give her some time to cool off. Give her about a week and then just give her a call to check up on her. Let her know that you’re still there if she needs help with anything and that you want her to be alright.
Find an excuse to bring or send her a small gift. This can be a favorite flower, candy, or even some sort of trinket. You can send it openly or you can send it without giving a name. The idea is not to buy her back, but remind her that you are thinking of her. Chances are that you will put a smile on her face and reignite an old flame.
After three to seven days you should write her a letter if she has not already contacted you. Let her know that you understand why things went wrong and tell her what you are willing to do to fix it. Detail the changes you are willing to make in your life and how you have already begun to work on your issues.
After three to seven days you should write her a letter if she has not already contacted you. Let her know that you understand why things went wrong and tell her what you are willing to do to fix it. Detail the changes you are willing to make in your life and how you have already begun to work on your issues.
Next, you need to treat her like she should be treated when you are with her. Don’t over do it, but make sure that you are polite, that you listen to her when she talks, and that you don’t expect too much from her. Show her the side of you that you may not have shown her often enough.
When you are out, have a heart to heart about how you feel. Let her know that you are sorry for your past mistakes and that you are serious about overcoming them, hopefully with her in your life. Let her know that you have a real hope that things can work out. Encourage her to share her feelings, as well.
If you get back together, make sure that you follow through with everything that you have told her. The worst thing you can do is make it look like you were lying when you were talking about getting back together. All relationships falter from time to time, but if you show her that she can trust you, you’ll find that you can get through anything.
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