Looking for Love?
How many people go through life feeling that they are lonely or unloved. Even married people go through stages where they feel that they are in this sort of relationship, some have never been in a long term relationship. These people try to tell you that they are happy being alone, but you get to a point in your life where you want someone to share your life with.
I have know people who hop in and out of relationships saying that it wasn’t what they were looking for. Only realizing late in life that what they were looking for was unrealistic, they were looking for the type of relationship that you see in the movies or on TV. They come to realize too late in life that there was one person who they thought wasn’t right for them, who with hindsight was exactly what they were looking for.
When you meet someone who you find attractive you make an effort, you tidy yourself up and you do things that you think will impress the object of your attentions. You make an effort to please them in order to win their affection. The problem a lot of people have is that once they have won the affection which they were seeking they stop making the effort. That’s when your chosen one starts thinking that you have changed and that you are no longer interested in them.
To make a blossoming relationship work and to keep it blossoming you have to continue to make the effort and even increase your efforts. Let me use this analogy. If you buy a business, you will work at it day and night to make it a success. Once you reduce your efforts the business will fail very quickly. The same goes for a relationship, no relationship will last without the effort.
They enjoyed each others company, and it’s not hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who will help you fulfill your every fantasy. He gave her and her family the security that they never had. She migrated back to his home country and made a home for him like no other he had ever had.
An Asian woman treats her man like he is a king. She will work, she won’t sit around the house and do nothing like many other women do. She will send money back to her family, that is her obligation, but she will earn that money.
Your house will be a home, she will cook for you; so well that you won’t want to eat out anymore. Above all she will ensure that you are happy in the bedroom. I don’t know what it is with Asian women, I think that it is in their genes or their mothers teach them from birth that the way to keep a man is to give him an excellent sex life.
Don’t think of them as prostitutes, think of them as survivors, and lets face it, you are probably in your 40’s or 50’s by the time you get to the stage of your life where you are going to go to Asia to find a wife. At 50, you don’t want a virgin, and even if you do, you aren’t going to get one. Who cares if the one you love worked in a bar half way across the world.
These girls in the main are or can be very nice girls, but they are looking for a way out of poverty. They will do and say anything to marry someone who will take them out of Asia. Sure they will look after you, as long as you are good to them, and you can come to love each other. But they don’t say “love you short time” for nothing, they will love you as long as you are there or as long as your money lasts.
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