How to Get Back With Your Ex, Easy Techniques
Is there a “magic” method to get my ex back, you ask? It may be hard to believe, but yes, there are words and techniques that will cast a spell and make your ex want to call you back. That’s great, isn’t it? I am going to show you how to do this because it is one of the most frequently asked question from my suscribers that want to know: how to get my ex back.
Ok, so the question is “how do I get my ex back, to return my phone call or text message?” This can be done, but be careful, this is just the begining of a plan, and not a complete strategy. This will get your ex to return a call, but not get her/him back to you (just yet). If you do this without a plan, you can damage your relationship instead of helping it. This is about building a great relationship with your ex once you get back.
Let’s start whit What NOT to Say. These are the usual mistakes people make, so don’t fall for them. Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works. And worse, puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.These usually fall into 2 categories.
PLEAD. You get in the phone for the 10th time in the day and say “hi, please, please call me, I need to talk to you. I’ve called all day and haven’t got an answer from you.” Of course you are not going to get an answer! With this kind of call, you are only going to get pity, and pity will not help you get your ex back.
The Emergency call: “Hi, I have an emergency and I need you. Please call me”. Your ex will know this is just a lie to get her/him to call you back, and maybe you will get the call, but this dirty trick will only work once, and to your disadvantage at that. Liying doesn’t help, believe me.
As you see, these will not do. You don’t want to be a liar nor be pitied by your ex. Instead, lets review a simple method to get your ex back on the phone.
Use curiosity and self interest. The most powerful forces in the human mind are our curiosity and our self interest. This is the big secret: combine the two and you have an instant “magic” technique. This will work every time!
In a friendly tone: “Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.” Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest? John will not be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message. This is a call that is going to be returned.
Ok, now you need to prepare what it is that your ex did that you appreciate. Surely you remember your good times with your ex, and there were moments when you received an advice or support in one form or another. Think about that and you have your setup ready for the date. Please remember that this is only the beginning. I want you to get back to yor ex, so this is only the first step.
Applying this thechnique, you will have your ex call you back, but you need a strategy to win her/him back. If not, this could do more bad than good. When you have a plan, what you do before, during and after you get them to call you back is even more important that just getting the call. So, this is the basic technique to get them to return a call, now get ready to create a plan to get your ex back.
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