Getting Back an Ex – Is It Worth It?

 

The Stupidest Breakup Ever

 

I am happily married now, but I remember my last breakup with crystal clarity. 

 

I had been away for the summer, doing an internship for college.  I was gone from my boyfriend for six weeks.  This was before the age of cell phones (I know, I know, I am dating myself), and there was no way he could reach me by phone.

 

I gave him my address, and he promised he would write.  Two weeks into the internship, there were no letters.  I had called him — on the one payphone in the building — and he’d said he’d written.  Of course, my new internship friends convinced me that he hadn’t.  The entire six weeks I was there, I didn’t get one single letter.

 

I was convinced my new friends were right, and that my boyfriend was the biggest loser on the planet.

 

When I got home, my boyfriend had a stack of letters waiting for me.  They were all addressed to me, and all marked undeliverable.  It turns out, I had given this man the wrong address, and that the letters didn’t make it back to him in time to resend them to me.

 

But, the damage had been done.

 

At that point, I didn’t know about relationships what I know about them now.  We dated for a few more weeks, maybe a month, but the stress caused by the letter incident was too much to overcome.  We broke up.

 

I was devastated.  I’m smarter about relationships now though.  I’ve learned a lot through life and through books, and I’m certain had the situation arose and I have had the proper skill set, we would not have broken up in the first place.  Even if we would have broken up, I probably would’ve gotten back together with him.  Because my people skills now are much better than they were then.

 

I’m happy to say, I did move on with my life.  It was just a short while later, that I met a wonderful man and eventually got married to him.  We have a wonderful relationship.  So, things worked out all right in the end, as they usually do.

 

Getting Back an Ex – Should You Bother?

 

Is getting back an ex worth it?  I think so, especially if you have a lot invested in a relationship.  If you’re married, or have kids together, or if this person is the love of your life, then you should take the time and the effort to get back together with your ex. 

 

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