Ending A Relationship With A Woman
One of the hardest things a guy can do, despite going out and trying to find women to date – is telling a woman he’s already seeing that things just aren’t working out.
There are a multitude of reasons why a man might want to end a relationship with her. He might not be attracted to her any longer, or feels like there is no emotional connection. She could just be annoying too.
Whatever the reason, the fact remains that you’re not happy with the person you are seeing, and you want to END IT.
The old saying goes – breaking up is hard to do. And boy, they weren’t kidding. It’s always hard to tell someone you don’t care for them the same way they do for you. But it’s always best to do it in a way that causes the least amount of pain possible.
The first thing to remember is that the sooner you do this, the better. If you know early on you don’t want to go deeper into a relationship, cut things off quickly instead of leading the girl on. This will make the seperation easier.
Sometimes, you may be tempted to keep the girl around until something better comes along. But don’t do this. Prolonging something you know isn’t going to work out won’t do either of you any good.
One of the worst things you can do is to start ignoring or avoiding her. If you do this, they’ll wonder what is up and eventually the feelings will turn into resentment.
It’s always best to not burn any bridges with women. If at any point you want to come back to her, you’ll want things to be amicable when you leave. Even if you don’t, it’s still good policy.
Destroying any ability you have to influence a woman can and will happen rather easily, if you dump her the wrong way. Be gentle about it instead.
Make sure you’re there in person. If that’s too hard for you, at least talk to her on the phone. Don’t leave a message or text her your decision. Have the courtesy to tell her in person.
When you break the news, let her know that it has been hard for you to come to this decision, because she is a great girl. But for whatever reason, you don’t feel the chemistry you need to be in a relationship with her.
Let her know you still value her and want to be her friend (even if you don’t), and then ask her what she thinks.
Usually, she will want to know why it is you don’t feel that special chemistry you need to be in a relationship. When she asks this, let her know this just wasn’t the right time for you, and that you don’t really know what you’re looking for.
Being vague will help spare the girl’s feelings.
A good thing to do is apologize for not feeling that chemistry! If you show her you are sorry, and wish things were different, she’ll feel empowered. That will help with the feeling of rejection she’s dealing with.
Make it clear you want to end things on good terms with her, and ask her what it would take to still be friends. By putting the ball in her court, you’ll be allowing her to tell you how to proceed.
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