Dating Secrets For Men, Part 2
From what I wrote in part one of this article, it’s probably pretty clear how most guys think the wrong way about dating. Let’s look at the right way!
So what does it mean to date a woman?
Simple: Dating is the process of building comfort, strengthening emotional connections, and building attraction!
See, it doesn’t matter where you go, or how much money you spend. All that matters is how you’re able to connect to the woman you’re with and what you can make her feel about you.
That is why so many guys can take a girl on a cheap date and sweep her off her feet, and other guys can drop thousands of dollars on really creative dates and get NOWHERE.
You need to focus on how you can become emotionally connected with her, instead of trying to wow her financially.
Find out what interests you share. What passions do you have? What are her hopes and dreams? These are the things you need to know.
Stay away from boring questions like “where do you work?” Instead, rephrase these questions to be fun and interesting, for instance, ask her: “If you could do anything you wanted, and weren’t bound by the laws of space and time, what would you do?”
And most of all to do: HAVE SOME FUN!
Crack jokes – even if they’re not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.
But most importantly, don’t shy away from the idea of love making!
Most guys won’t, but they aren’t successful either. And you need to do this to build up some tension, because without it, there is little chance of attraction.
Joke about it. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON’T do it, you won’t be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.
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