Creating Attraction No Matter What You Look Like, Part 2
In the first part of this article, I discussed the issues of your looks and women’s criteria of attraction. Here are two more myths to discuss!
Myth #3 – Women See What Makes Us Insecure
Understand that we know ourselves better than anyone else ever will. We are able to pick out every single flaw there is about ourselves – our big ears, big nose, weak chin, receeding hairline…
No matter what it is, we see it!
And because we see it, we assume everyone else does too. But the fact is, most people aren’t very observant, and unless they specifically look for something to criticize you about, they’re not going to care about your insecurities, whatever they may be.
A lot of guys try and dismiss their insecurities by calling attention to it, as if to try and “diffuse” whatever it is they feel is ugly about them. But all this does is draw the woman’s attention to this insecurity, and only at that point do people notice it.
And insecurity is always UNattractive.
It’s important, in every situation, that you always focus on the good stuff about you, instead of your shortcomings, and have the positives outshine the negatives.
Myth #4 – Good Looking Guys Have It Easy
This is a huge, prevalent myth that most men believe. It’s just assumed – if you are good looking, you’ll attract good looking mates.
A good looking man will have his own issues with the ladies. The physical attraction helps in the early stages, but long term, they’ll have some of the same issues.
Attraction is tantamount to amplifying the emotion a woman feels while she’s around you, and then have those same emotions become associated with you specifically, in her eyes. That way, you’ll become the source of them.
If a man matches a woman’s physical type, she’ll gravitate to him because those features make her feel good. But if the guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those feelings will go away.
However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn’t initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure – she WILL become attracted to him eventually.
This is the fundamental concept of attraction – when you make other people feel good, they will want to be around you.
You don’t have to be a good guy to make women feel good! You just need to know how to interact with them.
But the second aspect to this equation is physical attraction.
This is where, in addition to making people feel good, you also turn them on.
And this is where seduction comes in.
By creating attraction in a woman, she’s going to see you completely differently, and in a good way! This is despite any ill conceived shortcomings you believe you have.
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