I JUST got permission to post this letter by TW Jackson (T Dub) that reveals
How To Get Your Ex To Return Your Phone Calls.
When T Dub speaks, you should listen… he is that good… and let’s face it getting back your ex is a whole lot easier if they’ll talk to you.
Hi,
Are there ‘magic’ words you can use
to get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words
that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex
feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?…
I am going to share this with you because
this is one of the biggest questions I get
from the over 35,000 subscribers just
like you that are trying to put their relationship
back together.
So I am going to answer…”How do I get
my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”
BUT…
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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay
out a complete strategy.
If you use this technique alone, without
an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may
damage your relationship more than if
they never returned your call.
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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let’s
go over what message almost NEVER
works.
and worse…
Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”
And the EMERGENCY-
“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this.”
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won’t go on and on…
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here’s the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’
So…
Let’s look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person.”
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?”
“What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now…
Before you call you need to do the
“Set Up”…which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing…but needs to
be plausible.
But more importantly…
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy
like I lay out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is…
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN for getting back your ex!==>www.MagicOfMakingUp.com
Rooting For You,
T Dub
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When you are trying to win back an ex, you need to have a plan that works. Otherwise, you will just be running around trying everything you can think of to get your ex back.
Unfortunately, most of the things that we do that are “gut reactions” to a break up don’t work and end up having exactly the opposite effect we intend.
Get the system that works – check out the Magic Of Making Up here.
What Not to Do:
1. Don’t pick up the phone — without a plan.
2. Don’t go to where your ex hangs out, works, or any other place you think they might be. This just gets creepy.
3. Whatever you do, don’t get drunk and make contact with your ex. The results will be bad.
What to Do:
4. Gather up your friends, and go out and have a good time. Play basketball, get a drink, or go dancing. Do whatever you like to do for fun.
5. Use this technique (look for the video) to open up lines of conversation. Warning — it’s unconventional., but it works.
6. If you can’t get your ex to talk to you at all, then use the system outlined here.
7. Stay calm, act confident and secure. There is nothing more attractive than a confident person.
You can start winning back ex today. Don’t give up on the love of your life yet. Even if everything seems hopeless right now.
Get the system that works – check out the Magic Of Making Up here.
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The Stupidest Breakup Ever
I am happily married now, but I remember my last breakup with crystal clarity.
I had been away for the summer, doing an internship for college. I was gone from my boyfriend for six weeks. This was before the age of cell phones (I know, I know, I am dating myself), and there was no way he could reach me by phone.
I gave him my address, and he promised he would write. Two weeks into the internship, there were no letters. I had called him — on the one payphone in the building — and he’d said he’d written. Of course, my new internship friends convinced me that he hadn’t. The entire six weeks I was there, I didn’t get one single letter.
I was convinced my new friends were right, and that my boyfriend was the biggest loser on the planet.
When I got home, my boyfriend had a stack of letters waiting for me. They were all addressed to me, and all marked undeliverable. It turns out, I had given this man the wrong address, and that the letters didn’t make it back to him in time to resend them to me.
But, the damage had been done.
At that point, I didn’t know about relationships what I know about them now. We dated for a few more weeks, maybe a month, but the stress caused by the letter incident was too much to overcome. We broke up.
I was devastated. I’m smarter about relationships now though. I’ve learned a lot through life and through books, and I’m certain had the situation arose and I have had the proper skill set, we would not have broken up in the first place. Even if we would have broken up, I probably would’ve gotten back together with him. Because my people skills now are much better than they were then.
I’m happy to say, I did move on with my life. It was just a short while later, that I met a wonderful man and eventually got married to him. We have a wonderful relationship. So, things worked out all right in the end, as they usually do.
Getting Back an Ex – Should You Bother?
Is getting back an ex worth it? I think so, especially if you have a lot invested in a relationship. If you’re married, or have kids together, or if this person is the love of your life, then you should take the time and the effort to get back together with your ex.
Check out my favorite system for getting back an ex – here. It really works.
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Recently, I’ve come across a system, that really works to get your ex boyfriend back.
It’s called "The Magic of Making Up".
Now I’ve been studying relationships for about 15 years, and I’ve seen many crappy products on the market to help people with dating, breakups, and relationships. Most of these products just rehash the same old information over and over again. "The Magic of Making Up" is different.
"The Magic of Making Up" is unconventional, brutally honest, and actually fun to read. Most importantly, it works.
One of the very first things you learn about how to get your ex boyfriend back is the underlying reason why you broke up in the first place. This is eye-opening. No matter why you think you broke up, it’s almost always something else, and you need to understand the real reason to have a good chance to get ex boyfriend back.
The next thing you learn is how to stop the pain. This is crucial. You must gain some perspective in order to deal with the situation rationally. This technique really works, and is worth the price of the book all by itself.
The book doesn’t stop there, you also get step-by-step instructions about how to approach your ex. It tells you exactly what to say and when. It reveals whether you should date or not, and how to deal with infidelity. It shows you exactly when to reinitiate sex (this may surprise you), and gives you a complete system so that you can get your ex boyfriend back.
All in all, I highly recommend this book. It’s been used by over 6100 people all over the world to have repair their relationships.
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Ending a relationship with a text breakup is completely lame. I could rant for hours on this topic, but I’ll save you my rant and get on with the tips and tricks.
#1. Desperate, needy behavior is as lame as ending relationship with a text breakup.
The challenge with breakups is that they cause tremendous emotional stress and anxiety. To put it bluntly, this makes you act stupid. I’m sure, that at some point, you’ve seen your friends go through breakup, and do stuff that was totally out of character. Stuff like, text message terrorism, answering machine madness, unexpected visits unexpected visits to their ex.
Just say no. Don’t do this stuff, it just makes you look stupid, and completely lessenes your chance of getting back with your ex.
#2. Stop lying around the house moping — get out there and do something.
Have you ever noticed that when you lay around the house depressed and miserable, it only makes you more depressed and miserable?
To stop the cycle, you need to get out more. Go to your favorite store, restaurant, or friends house. Play your favorite sports, go see a movie, and reconnect with the things you did when you were single. If there were something you enjoy then, go out and do it now. You’ll feel much better for it.
#3. Plan your opening move — make it effective.
Your opening move is critical, it will often determine the success or failure. Check out this video of the ultimate opening move. (Don’t worry if you birdie screwed things up with desperate needy behavior. You can always press the reset button by limiting contact for a while.)
I really like this guy, he’s got good stuff to say. Check out his downloadable book The Magic of Making Up here.
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This is one of my favorite techniques for you and your ex to get back together. Sometimes, this technique is actually all you need. Check it out let me know what you think.
I hope this technique has really helped you, and that you put it into action right away.
To your success in your relationships!
Heather
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